We are getting smarter about work and people and the intersection  between them. More and more, working people are telling the truth about  topics that they were afraid to talk about openly before. One of the  stickiest topics is the quality of leadership found in large and small  employers.     We are starting to tell the truth about the fact that most people in leadership positions are lacking in critical skills.     They don’t know how to talk to their employees and they don’t know how  to listen. If they received any management training at all, they were  probably trained to dole out work assignments and evaluate people. They  don’t know how to probe for understanding or how to create cohesion on a  team.   Here are seven leadership skills most managers lack.       Perspective-Taking     A good manager can take another person’s perspective, whether the  other person is a customer, the manager’s boss, or an employee on the  manager’s team. Strong managers can see the world thr...